Tichtheid wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 11:01 am
Paddington Bear wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 9:13 am
It’s very hard to know what the solution is to this. Funding is a factor, drowning clubs in regulations and paperwork doesn’t help, but pure and simple there are fewer people willing to dedicate their spare time to team sport in the way that is required to run a rugby club. For whatever reason a committed player 20 years ago may have missed a game a season for a wedding etc, a committed player now probably plays 75% of games (we get this particular issue worse in cricket as a summer sport). I don’t know how you fix that or what if anything you can do about it.
It’s very sad - I played my first game of men’s rugby 14 years ago when my club had four sides and a vets team all playing at home. They now run 2 sides and are often scrabbling to fill the bench of the 2s (inevitable situation for your lower side probably). There is, granted, a women’s team now but the bar of what is needed for one is so low - they’ll play two games this season and it’ll be chalked up by all as a success.
Yeah, similarly my hometown club put out three men's senior teams and a Colts U19 every week, plus the one school in the town ran teams for every year. Now the club is responsible for the school age rugby and we have one men's team. The women's side is coming on nicely and our junior section has lots of boys and girls playing minis - it's keeping them after 18 years old that is the problem and I'm not sure the Unions are to blame to be honest, or even what they are supposed to do about it.
In Scotland's case (excuse me, it's relevant to the discussion, even on the English thread) the playing numbers you read include "players" who have taken part in SRU outreach programs in the Highlands and Islands as well as other rural areas across the country.
Things have changed, people don't work locally, more kids go off to uni, as you say fewer are prepared to commit to a whole day travelling, playing and socialising. Many younger people are playing E games or other sports or even watching professional rugby - the club support has to come from somewhere and if they are watching on a Saturday afternoon, that's people who aren't playing themselves.
I remember a very similar article a few years ago about Ireland and especially Ulster which had Willie John McBride saying pretty much the same thing
Young people is part of the puzzle but the heart of the playing side of a sports club tends to be people in their 30s and 40s - been around a bit longer, settled, more likely to be willing/able to run sides, possibly a bit more cash etc. That’s the generation that’s missing particularly at rugby clubs now from my experience.
Anecdotally there are three big reasons for this:
1. Individual/smaller group pursuits. Running/cycling/golf largely. You by and large choose who you do and don’t do them with, timings are yours and you broadly guarantee your outcome rather than getting 15 minutes off the bench etc.
2. ‘Events’. Not uncommon to end up at 3 stags, 4 weddings, a weekend away you shouldn’t miss, festival etc. and then the season is gone.
From personal experience, I know my wife’s friends (male and female) have always found it deeply odd that I can and will miss going for say brunch and cocktails to play league sport, I don’t think it was considered so deeply weird and an outlier in the past, and you need to be pretty committed to the club to get past the peer pressure on this.
3. Kids seem to ‘need’ bespoke activities and direct parental time in a way that wasn’t true previously. My childhood Saturdays were spent on the touchline/round the boundary and to broadly work out how to amuse myself, you could guarantee there’d be other kids from Dads playing for both sides there as well. Generally a pretty great way to spend time tbh, this really seems to have fallen off a cliff and means for Dad to play Mum will be looking after the kids. Mum of course works full time in a way that wasn’t so true previously, which changes the dynamic as well.