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Genuine question
Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
by Openside
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:42 pm
by Opensides Butler
Ma'am, your tartan skirt is freshly pressed.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:57 pm
by Openside
Opensides Butler wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:42 pm
Ma'am, your tartan skirt is freshly pressed.

Very good. I am however am really interested in the answer.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2020 11:19 pm
by Random1
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Suppose it’s dictated by the person being described.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
by hlvp
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:10 am
by Guy Smiley
hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
No, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 4:55 am
by Carter's Choice
Shanky’s mate wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:10 am
hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
No, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.
What a stupid comment by hlvp. He is so dumb

Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:31 am
by Rhubarb & Custard
Shanky’s mate wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:10 am
hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
No, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.
Sex, very few mentions of gender on a birth certificate I'd have thought
And whilst Eddie once might have been thought a man who liked dressing as a woman it's quite likely her thinking on this has changed as society has also come to consider the matter and be more flexible in its thinking. So far as I know Eddie is now a lesbian in a man's body, though that's based on a comedy routine by Eddie rather than any actual knowledge
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 9:11 am
by Openside
Rhubarb & Custard wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:31 am
Shanky’s mate wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:10 am
hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
No, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.
Sex, very few mentions of gender on a birth certificate I'd have thought
And whilst Eddie once might have been thought a man who liked dressing as a woman it's quite likely her thinking on this has changed as society has also come to consider the matter and be more flexible in its thinking. So far as I know Eddie is now a lesbian in a man's body, though that's based on a comedy routine by Eddie rather than any actual knowledge
God it’s a minefield

I fully support his/her wish to be anything he/she wants, however it is quite anomalous when you see someone in a dress and makeup who essentially looks like a navvie.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:04 am
by GogLais
Openside wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 9:11 am
Rhubarb & Custard wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:31 am
Shanky’s mate wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:10 am
No, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.
Sex, very few mentions of gender on a birth certificate I'd have thought
And whilst Eddie once might have been thought a man who liked dressing as a woman it's quite likely her thinking on this has changed as society has also come to consider the matter and be more flexible in its thinking. So far as I know Eddie is now a lesbian in a man's body, though that's based on a comedy routine by Eddie rather than any actual knowledge
God it’s a minefield

I fully support his/her wish to be anything he/she wants, however it is quite anomalous when you see someone in a dress and makeup who essentially looks like a navvie.
Careful, you don’t want to be cancelled.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:15 am
by JM2K6
Eddie doesn't seem to care if you call him he or she, apparently. I missed his coming out as transgender a few years back.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:22 am
by westport
There are only male and females, the rest are life style choices
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:23 am
by Raggs
westport wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:22 am
There are only male and females, the rest are life style choices
And hemaphrodites?
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:53 am
by ScarfaceClaw
After he died on his arse on stage at some Labour/Corbyn love in picnic where the few who bothered to turn up pretty much ignored him and his swearing routines, the best he can hope for is “used to be relevant”.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 11:14 am
by Globus
The Death Star Canteen sketch (in Lego) is a classic.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 11:30 am
by Sandstorm
ScarfaceClaw wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:53 am
After he died on his arse on stage at some Labour/Corbyn love in picnic where the few who bothered to turn up pretty much ignored him and his swearing routines, the best he can hope for is “used to be relevant”.
Rather poor choice of venue for a comedian. You'd think he'd pick a crowd who knew how to laugh.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 11:42 am
by SaintK
JM2K6 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:15 am
Eddie doesn't seem to care if you call him he or she, apparently. I missed his coming out as transgender a few years back.
Nor does Grayson Perry by the looks of him on Have I got news for you last week
He was in full Maggie Thatcher regalia. The wig was particularly accurate

Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 12:47 pm
by Torquemada 1420
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Awful programme. Judges are typical, contrary loveees and select winners based on pseudo criteria that only they, as experts, could appreciate.
Would be fine if we just had the artists and no judges.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:00 pm
by Biffer
hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
Late entry to the 'dumbest post of the year' category in the end of year awards, in a year where the bar is very high indeed.
Watch out for a late rush of idiocy from bimbot to try and secure his position.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:13 pm
by Glaston
Biffer wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:00 pm
hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
Late entry to the 'dumbest post of the year' category in the end of year awards, in a year where the bar is very high indeed.
Watch out for a late rush of idiocy from bimbot to try and secure his position.
What does it say on your birth certificate?
The options on mine are,
sex : Male or Female.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:22 pm
by Raggs
Glaston wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:13 pm
Biffer wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:00 pm
hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
Late entry to the 'dumbest post of the year' category in the end of year awards, in a year where the bar is very high indeed.
Watch out for a late rush of idiocy from bimbot to try and secure his position.
What does it say on your birth certificate?
The options on mine are,
sex : Male or Female.
And how about your sexuality, which is what hlvp wrote?
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:37 pm
by Biffer
Glaston wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:13 pm
Biffer wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:00 pm
hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
Late entry to the 'dumbest post of the year' category in the end of year awards, in a year where the bar is very high indeed.
Watch out for a late rush of idiocy from bimbot to try and secure his position.
What does it say on your birth certificate?
The options on mine are,
sex : Male or Female.
Another late entry.
What's that got to do with your sexuality?
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:56 pm
by Raggs
Lets be honest, even Male/Female is limited enough.
What about hermaphrodites? XXY chromosomes? XYY? XY but with testosterone inhibited in development, so have female genitalia? Or XX with male genitalia? All naturally occurring before we even venture into the realms of gender.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:13 pm
by Openside
Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 12:47 pm
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Awful programme. Judges are typical, contrary loveees and select winners based on pseudo criteria that only they, as experts, could appreciate.
Would be fine if we just had the artists and no judges.
I really like it as I have the artistic ability of a primary school child (and not one of the good ones) I agree re the judges they seem to waft through any old shite. The whole thing was won by someone who I can only describe as a scribbler, but he certainly ticked a few diversity boxes. Horses for courses I guess...
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:37 pm
by Torquemada 1420
Openside wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:13 pm
Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 12:47 pm
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Awful programme. Judges are typical, contrary loveees and select winners based on pseudo criteria that only they, as experts, could appreciate.
Would be fine if we just had the artists and no judges.
I really like it as I have the artistic ability of a primary school child (and not one of the good ones) I agree re the judges they seem to waft through any old shite. The whole thing was won by someone who I can only describe as a scribbler, but he certainly ticked a few diversity boxes. Horses for courses I guess...
Yup. Some of the artists are amazing. They are the ones who get booted first up. At least Masterchef doesn't try and wave through contestants who empty a packet of McDonalds onto a plate.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:46 pm
by Gumboot
Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:37 pm
Openside wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:13 pm
Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 12:47 pm
Awful programme. Judges are typical, contrary loveees and select winners based on pseudo criteria that only they, as experts, could appreciate.
Would be fine if we just had the artists and no judges.
I really like it as I have the artistic ability of a primary school child (and not one of the good ones) I agree re the judges they seem to waft through any old shite. The whole thing was won by someone who I can only describe as a scribbler, but he certainly ticked a few diversity boxes. Horses for courses I guess...
Yup. Some of the artists are amazing. They are the ones who get booted first up. At least Masterchef doesn't try and wave through contestants who empty a packet of McDonalds onto a plate.
I really enjoy watching the artists develop their portraits. Couldn't care less about the judges' waffle or who they choose. It's the artistic process and variety of approaches on show that interests me.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:53 pm
by Openside
Gumboot wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:46 pm
Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:37 pm
Openside wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:13 pm
I really like it as I have the artistic ability of a primary school child (and not one of the good ones) I agree re the judges they seem to waft through any old shite. The whole thing was won by someone who I can only describe as a scribbler, but he certainly ticked a few diversity boxes. Horses for courses I guess...
Yup. Some of the artists are amazing. They are the ones who get booted first up. At least Masterchef doesn't try and wave through contestants who empty a packet of McDonalds onto a plate.
I really enjoy watching the artists develop their portraits. Couldn't care less about the judges' waffle or who they choose. It's the artistic process and variety of approaches on show that interests me.
Totally agree CMOS and I are staggered that some people just slap seemingly random daubs of paint anywhere and it all comes together. Am in awe of the skill on display.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 8:50 pm
by Bimbowomxn
SaintK wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 11:42 am
JM2K6 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:15 am
Eddie doesn't seem to care if you call him he or she, apparently. I missed his coming out as transgender a few years back.
Nor does Grayson Perry by the looks of him on Have I got news for you last week
He was in full Maggie Thatcher regalia. The wig was particularly accurate
Perry is awesome.... and a they of Essex.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 8:54 pm
by notfatcat
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
I think Izzard is happy as a bloke in a dress. If he wanted to be called Edwina or Marjory then it would be polite to refer to him as her when he's wearing a frock.
I know a cross-dresser and used to call him by his female name when he was dressed as a woman and his male name when dressed as a bloke. I think he's given up the frocks in public as he was getting beaten up, which is sickening enough as it is but the bloke's aged around 60 and harmless.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2020 12:29 am
by Openside
notfatcat wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 8:54 pm
Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm
I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
I think Izzard is happy as a bloke in a dress. If he wanted to be called Edwina or Marjory then it would be polite to refer to him as her when he's wearing a frock.
I know a cross-dresser and used to call him by his female name when he was dressed as a woman and his male name when dressed as a bloke. I think he's given up the frocks in public as he was getting beaten up, which is sickening enough as it is but the bloke's aged around 60 and harmless.

it’s all so totally unnecessary

Re: Genuine question
Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2020 7:20 am
by Big Nipper
Not a genuine question at all. Just another loaded question from an out of touch boomer
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2020 9:27 am
by Openside
Big Nipper wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 7:20 am
Not a genuine question at all. Just another loaded question from an out of touch boomer
Yet more uninformed opinion from a dribbling snowflake moron.
There was nothing loaded about it all all I was genuinely interested so I was informed should the need arise.
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2020 9:38 am
by Slick
Openside wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 9:27 am
Big Nipper wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 7:20 am
Not a genuine question at all. Just another loaded question from an out of touch boomer
Yet more uninformed opinion from a dribbling snowflake moron.
There was nothing loaded about it all all I was genuinely interested so I was informed should the need arise.
Folk have the right to be called what they want but they also have to have the understanding that people will make genuine mistakes and should have the humility not to beat them with that
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2020 12:47 pm
by Openside
Slick wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 9:38 am
Openside wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 9:27 am
Big Nipper wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 7:20 am
Not a genuine question at all. Just another loaded question from an out of touch boomer
Yet more uninformed opinion from a dribbling snowflake moron.
There was nothing loaded about it all all I was genuinely interested so I was informed should the need arise.
Folk have the right to be called what they want but they also have to have the understanding that people will make genuine mistakes and should have the humility not to beat them with that
indeed, hence the question I was trying to educate myself as I am sure the time will come for a judgement call
Re: Genuine question
Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2020 10:55 pm
by Cartman
We enjoy watching PAOTY
Not a fan of this year's winner's work tbh
But the other finalists were weak