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I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
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Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Suppose it’s dictated by the person being described.
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
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No, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 amIn my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
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What a stupid comment by hlvp. He is so dumbShanky’s mate wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:10 amNo, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 amIn my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)

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Sex, very few mentions of gender on a birth certificate I'd have thoughtShanky’s mate wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:10 amNo, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 amIn my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
And whilst Eddie once might have been thought a man who liked dressing as a woman it's quite likely her thinking on this has changed as society has also come to consider the matter and be more flexible in its thinking. So far as I know Eddie is now a lesbian in a man's body, though that's based on a comedy routine by Eddie rather than any actual knowledge
God it’s a minefieldRhubarb & Custard wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:31 amSex, very few mentions of gender on a birth certificate I'd have thoughtShanky’s mate wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:10 amNo, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
And whilst Eddie once might have been thought a man who liked dressing as a woman it's quite likely her thinking on this has changed as society has also come to consider the matter and be more flexible in its thinking. So far as I know Eddie is now a lesbian in a man's body, though that's based on a comedy routine by Eddie rather than any actual knowledge
I fully support his/her wish to be anything he/she wants, however it is quite anomalous when you see someone in a dress and makeup who essentially looks like a navvie.
Careful, you don’t want to be cancelled.Openside wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 9:11 amGod it’s a minefieldRhubarb & Custard wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:31 amSex, very few mentions of gender on a birth certificate I'd have thoughtShanky’s mate wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:10 am
No, it wasn’t. No one was ever labelled ‘gay’ or ‘hetero’ on a birth certificate. You are trying to refer to gender.
And whilst Eddie once might have been thought a man who liked dressing as a woman it's quite likely her thinking on this has changed as society has also come to consider the matter and be more flexible in its thinking. So far as I know Eddie is now a lesbian in a man's body, though that's based on a comedy routine by Eddie rather than any actual knowledge
I fully support his/her wish to be anything he/she wants, however it is quite anomalous when you see someone in a dress and makeup who essentially looks like a navvie.
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After he died on his arse on stage at some Labour/Corbyn love in picnic where the few who bothered to turn up pretty much ignored him and his swearing routines, the best he can hope for is “used to be relevant”.
Rather poor choice of venue for a comedian. You'd think he'd pick a crowd who knew how to laugh.ScarfaceClaw wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:53 am After he died on his arse on stage at some Labour/Corbyn love in picnic where the few who bothered to turn up pretty much ignored him and his swearing routines, the best he can hope for is “used to be relevant”.
Nor does Grayson Perry by the looks of him on Have I got news for you last weekJM2K6 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:15 am Eddie doesn't seem to care if you call him he or she, apparently. I missed his coming out as transgender a few years back.
He was in full Maggie Thatcher regalia. The wig was particularly accurate

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Awful programme. Judges are typical, contrary loveees and select winners based on pseudo criteria that only they, as experts, could appreciate.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Would be fine if we just had the artists and no judges.
Late entry to the 'dumbest post of the year' category in the end of year awards, in a year where the bar is very high indeed.hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 amIn my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Watch out for a late rush of idiocy from bimbot to try and secure his position.
And are there two g’s in Bugger Off?
What does it say on your birth certificate?Biffer wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:00 pmLate entry to the 'dumbest post of the year' category in the end of year awards, in a year where the bar is very high indeed.hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 amIn my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Watch out for a late rush of idiocy from bimbot to try and secure his position.
The options on mine are,
sex : Male or Female.
And how about your sexuality, which is what hlvp wrote?Glaston wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:13 pmWhat does it say on your birth certificate?Biffer wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:00 pmLate entry to the 'dumbest post of the year' category in the end of year awards, in a year where the bar is very high indeed.hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
Watch out for a late rush of idiocy from bimbot to try and secure his position.
The options on mine are,
sex : Male or Female.
Give a man a fire and he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.
Another late entry.Glaston wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:13 pmWhat does it say on your birth certificate?Biffer wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:00 pmLate entry to the 'dumbest post of the year' category in the end of year awards, in a year where the bar is very high indeed.hlvp wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 1:18 am
In my former life, one's sexuality was indicated on a birth certificate.
Watch out for a late rush of idiocy from bimbot to try and secure his position.
The options on mine are,
sex : Male or Female.
What's that got to do with your sexuality?
And are there two g’s in Bugger Off?
Lets be honest, even Male/Female is limited enough.
What about hermaphrodites? XXY chromosomes? XYY? XY but with testosterone inhibited in development, so have female genitalia? Or XX with male genitalia? All naturally occurring before we even venture into the realms of gender.
What about hermaphrodites? XXY chromosomes? XYY? XY but with testosterone inhibited in development, so have female genitalia? Or XX with male genitalia? All naturally occurring before we even venture into the realms of gender.
Give a man a fire and he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.
I really like it as I have the artistic ability of a primary school child (and not one of the good ones) I agree re the judges they seem to waft through any old shite. The whole thing was won by someone who I can only describe as a scribbler, but he certainly ticked a few diversity boxes. Horses for courses I guess...Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 12:47 pmAwful programme. Judges are typical, contrary loveees and select winners based on pseudo criteria that only they, as experts, could appreciate.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Would be fine if we just had the artists and no judges.
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Yup. Some of the artists are amazing. They are the ones who get booted first up. At least Masterchef doesn't try and wave through contestants who empty a packet of McDonalds onto a plate.Openside wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:13 pmI really like it as I have the artistic ability of a primary school child (and not one of the good ones) I agree re the judges they seem to waft through any old shite. The whole thing was won by someone who I can only describe as a scribbler, but he certainly ticked a few diversity boxes. Horses for courses I guess...Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 12:47 pmAwful programme. Judges are typical, contrary loveees and select winners based on pseudo criteria that only they, as experts, could appreciate.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
Would be fine if we just had the artists and no judges.
I really enjoy watching the artists develop their portraits. Couldn't care less about the judges' waffle or who they choose. It's the artistic process and variety of approaches on show that interests me.Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:37 pmYup. Some of the artists are amazing. They are the ones who get booted first up. At least Masterchef doesn't try and wave through contestants who empty a packet of McDonalds onto a plate.Openside wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:13 pmI really like it as I have the artistic ability of a primary school child (and not one of the good ones) I agree re the judges they seem to waft through any old shite. The whole thing was won by someone who I can only describe as a scribbler, but he certainly ticked a few diversity boxes. Horses for courses I guess...Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 12:47 pm
Awful programme. Judges are typical, contrary loveees and select winners based on pseudo criteria that only they, as experts, could appreciate.
Would be fine if we just had the artists and no judges.
Totally agree CMOS and I are staggered that some people just slap seemingly random daubs of paint anywhere and it all comes together. Am in awe of the skill on display.Gumboot wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:46 pmI really enjoy watching the artists develop their portraits. Couldn't care less about the judges' waffle or who they choose. It's the artistic process and variety of approaches on show that interests me.Torquemada 1420 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:37 pmYup. Some of the artists are amazing. They are the ones who get booted first up. At least Masterchef doesn't try and wave through contestants who empty a packet of McDonalds onto a plate.Openside wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 2:13 pm
I really like it as I have the artistic ability of a primary school child (and not one of the good ones) I agree re the judges they seem to waft through any old shite. The whole thing was won by someone who I can only describe as a scribbler, but he certainly ticked a few diversity boxes. Horses for courses I guess...
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SaintK wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 11:42 amNor does Grayson Perry by the looks of him on Have I got news for you last weekJM2K6 wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 10:15 am Eddie doesn't seem to care if you call him he or she, apparently. I missed his coming out as transgender a few years back.
He was in full Maggie Thatcher regalia. The wig was particularly accurate![]()
Perry is awesome.... and a they of Essex.
I think Izzard is happy as a bloke in a dress. If he wanted to be called Edwina or Marjory then it would be polite to refer to him as her when he's wearing a frock.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
I know a cross-dresser and used to call him by his female name when he was dressed as a woman and his male name when dressed as a bloke. I think he's given up the frocks in public as he was getting beaten up, which is sickening enough as it is but the bloke's aged around 60 and harmless.
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notfatcat wrote: Fri Dec 18, 2020 8:54 pmI think Izzard is happy as a bloke in a dress. If he wanted to be called Edwina or Marjory then it would be polite to refer to him as her when he's wearing a frock.Openside wrote: Thu Dec 17, 2020 10:40 pm I am watching Portrait Artist of the year and the sitter is Eddie Izzard, they are using the pronoun her to describe the sitter. If you are a cross dresser ( as I believe EI is) do you refer to them as her in a dress and him when not? I kind of thought a cross dresser was a bloke that enjoyed dressing as a woman (basically like 80% of Royal Marines) as opposed to a transsexual who actually identifies as a woman (if biologically male)
I know a cross-dresser and used to call him by his female name when he was dressed as a woman and his male name when dressed as a bloke. I think he's given up the frocks in public as he was getting beaten up, which is sickening enough as it is but the bloke's aged around 60 and harmless.

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Not a genuine question at all. Just another loaded question from an out of touch boomer
Yet more uninformed opinion from a dribbling snowflake moron.Big Nipper wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 7:20 am Not a genuine question at all. Just another loaded question from an out of touch boomer
There was nothing loaded about it all all I was genuinely interested so I was informed should the need arise.
Folk have the right to be called what they want but they also have to have the understanding that people will make genuine mistakes and should have the humility not to beat them with thatOpenside wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 9:27 amYet more uninformed opinion from a dribbling snowflake moron.Big Nipper wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 7:20 am Not a genuine question at all. Just another loaded question from an out of touch boomer
There was nothing loaded about it all all I was genuinely interested so I was informed should the need arise.
All the money you made will never buy back your soul
indeed, hence the question I was trying to educate myself as I am sure the time will come for a judgement callSlick wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 9:38 amFolk have the right to be called what they want but they also have to have the understanding that people will make genuine mistakes and should have the humility not to beat them with thatOpenside wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 9:27 amYet more uninformed opinion from a dribbling snowflake moron.Big Nipper wrote: Sat Dec 19, 2020 7:20 am Not a genuine question at all. Just another loaded question from an out of touch boomer
There was nothing loaded about it all all I was genuinely interested so I was informed should the need arise.